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Father Christmas is fat, grey and old. I’m exactly the same, and yet no one wants me in their house at Christmas. What can I do?

December 4, 2021 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

Everyone loves Father Christmas. People invite him into their houses with offers of mince pies and wine, think he’s cute and in some instances sit

False memories are made by a creative brain

Remember that special holiday? Possibly not. What are false memories and how can you make the best of them?

February 15, 2021 marvinmidlife Midlife Health & Fitness

False memories mean that sometimes what you think happened never actually did. Why is that, and what can you do to leverage this brain quirk to make you happier

I’m so stressed with lockdown and Covid-19, I’m literally tearing my hair out. What can I do?

December 26, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

Stressed with lockdown and tearing your middle aged hair out? Read how you could help yourself turn to a happier, calmer you and keep that full head of hair

Can I skip giving cards and presents this year and just post a Christmas message on social media, or is that rude?

December 16, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

Being in lockdown means I’m not likely to see many of my friends over the Christmas period. I usually buy them a small gift and get the a card. Do you think it’s OK just to send a generic Christmas message on social media this year? It would save me both time and money, and I won’t be there to see the disappointment on people’s faces.

I have to decide who to have in my Coronavirus social bubble. Do you think my family would mind if they’re not in it?

May 10, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

As social distancing relaxes, we’re now being asked to consider setting up a Coronavirus social bubble with other people. I’m quite excited by the options of who I could choose. However I’m a bit bored of my family after six weeks, so I’m wondering whether I should ditch them and bubble with some different people?

I’m thinking of coming out. I’m not sure as what, but I feel it could do wonders for my profile. Should I do it?

April 30, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

I am thinking of coming out but am not sure what it is I want to expose. I have spent years being overlooked and hiding in the shadows. What can I do?

I have seeds that need planting and no compost. Should I drive miles to buy some, and break lockdown rules?

April 9, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

I have heard about this Coronavirus thingy, and lockdown rules. However, I have a whole load of Marigold seeds that need planting. Can I drive to the shop to buy compost?

My wife says I have a snoring problem and is threatening to kick me out of bed. What should I do?

February 18, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

My wife says I have a snoring problem and is threatening to kick me out of bed. Things you can do to deal with the situation.

I’ve been learning the guitar and now dream of being a rock star. Am I too old to rock n’roll?

January 17, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

Being a rock star worries me. I’m just a tad over 50 and play a bit of guitar. I am thinking of putting some of

I’m fat from too many Christmas mince pies and alcohol. Should I do a dry January to improve my health or is it a waste of time?

January 9, 2020 Aunt Marvin Ask Marvin

I have eaten and drunk to excess over the Christmas period, and am now having trouble squeezing back into my suit. I need to lose a couple of pounds, and am surrounded by people talking about dry or “damp” Januaries. Should I join this sober party, or continue with my life of excess?

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Father Christmas is fat, grey and old. I’m exactly the same, and yet no one wants me in their house at Christmas. What can I do?

Remember that special holiday? Possibly not. What are false memories and how can you make the best of them?

I’m so stressed with lockdown and Covid-19, I’m literally tearing my hair out. What can I do?

Can I skip giving cards and presents this year and just post a Christmas message on social media, or is that rude?

I have to decide who to have in my Coronavirus social bubble. Do you think my family would mind if they’re not in it?

I’m thinking of coming out. I’m not sure as what, but I feel it could do wonders for my profile. Should I do it?

I have seeds that need planting and no compost. Should I drive miles to buy some, and break lockdown rules?

My wife says I have a snoring problem and is threatening to kick me out of bed. What should I do?

I’ve been learning the guitar and now dream of being a rock star. Am I too old to rock n’roll?

I hate lateness. Other people I know make a habit of it. How do I stop myself hating them?

I love online gaming. My wife thinks it’s dangerous, pathetic, and I should stop. What should I do?

I hate PowerPoint with a passion. What can I do?

Drinks with my boss. Is it a bad idea if it might lead to a dangerous affair?

Should I dye my grey hair darker to make me more successful (and attractive?)