Ask Marvin the questions you’ve always wanted to ask. Get amazing midlife advice on a range of work or personal issues as you fight your middle age demons.
Previous ‘Ask Marvin’ midlife questions and answers….
![My work suit no longer fits, and my birthday suit isn't what it was. What can I do before I return to the office? 2 Birthday suit](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/birthday44-150x150.png)
My work suit no longer fits, and my birthday suit isn’t what it was. What can I do before I return to the office?
![Can I skip giving cards and presents this year and just post a Christmas message on social media, or is that rude? 5 Christmas message](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/christmasmessage-150x150.png)
Can I skip giving cards and presents this year and just post a Christmas message on social media, or is that rude?
![I have become a grumpy old man. How can I get back to being the thigh slapping, fun guy I used to be? 6 Grumpy old man](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/grumpyoldmen-150x150.jpg)
I have become a grumpy old man. How can I get back to being the thigh slapping, fun guy I used to be?
![I hate queuing. I don't like following directions and I use cash. How will I cope with social distancing shopping? 7 Social distancing shopping](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/06/socialdistancingshop-150x150.jpg)
I hate queuing. I don’t like following directions and I use cash. How will I cope with social distancing shopping?
![Social distancing relaxation means friends are now coming to my house. Should I clean it before they arrive? 8 Social distancing relaxation cleaning](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2020/04/marigold2-150x150.jpg)
Social distancing relaxation means friends are now coming to my house. Should I clean it before they arrive?
![I have to decide who to have in my Coronavirus social bubble. Do you think my family would mind if they're not in it? 10 Ask Marvin](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/agonyuncle-150x150.jpg)
I have to decide who to have in my Coronavirus social bubble. Do you think my family would mind if they’re not in it?
![I'm thinking of coming out. I'm not sure as what, but I feel it could do wonders for my profile. Should I do it? 11 Ask Marvin](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/agonyuncle-150x150.jpg)
I’m thinking of coming out. I’m not sure as what, but I feel it could do wonders for my profile. Should I do it?
![I have seeds that need planting and no compost. Should I drive miles to buy some, and break lockdown rules? 12 Ask Marvin](https://redundantmidlife.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2019/11/agonyuncle-150x150.jpg)
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