Redundant Midlife

Since lockdown I have been ghosting people I don’t like. How should I deal with seeing them again?

Posted on May 24, 2020December 26, 2020 by Aunt Marvin

When lockdown started I began ghosting people i didn’t like. I pretended my internet connection was really poor, and I never looked at my phone, so I couldn’t join in the social-media-zoom frenzy. Now they’re relaxing lockdown, should I go back to being smiley and pleasant when I see them, or continue to cut them out of my life?

I’m thinking of coming out. I’m not sure as what, but I feel it could do wonders for my profile. Should I do it?

Posted on April 30, 2020June 10, 2020 by Aunt Marvin

I am thinking of coming out but am not sure what it is I want to expose. I have spent years being overlooked and hiding in the shadows. What can I do?

I’ve been learning the guitar and now dream of being a rock star. Am I too old to rock n’roll?

Posted on January 17, 2020June 10, 2020 by Aunt Marvin

0 Being a rock star worries me. I’m just a tad over 50 and play a bit of guitar. I

What does Daddy do all day? Getting traumatised by Loose Women isn’t all fun.

Posted on November 19, 2019March 22, 2020 by marvinmidlife

What do you fill your days with when you’re redundant? Daytime TV anyone?

Shockingly I won’t be the next CEO. So what is midlife career end-game?

Posted on November 16, 2019February 12, 2020 by marvinmidlife

I won’t be the next CEO. And nor will you (probably). So what does that mean for your career and sanity midlife?

Drinks with my boss. Is it a bad idea if it might lead to a dangerous affair?

Posted on November 10, 2019November 21, 2020 by Aunt Marvin

My boss is super attractive and I think would have a dangerous affair with me – what should I do?

A brilliant excuse. Is daydreaming in dull meetings part of evolutionary make-up?

Posted on November 7, 2019June 8, 2020 by marvinmidlife

Office meetings can be dull, but are a necessary part of work life even if half the room is daydreaming or messaging their friends. It’s an evolutionary thing.